Tuesday, June 08, 2004

What to do Instead of...For those distracted by a broken heart

"The truth that makes men free is for the most part the truth which men prefer not to hear."
Herbert Agar

I think this is especially true when it comes to relationships. The more emotional it is the more truth there seems to be in that statement, at least at some point during its course.

There is an element of "you are alone" that we must all confront and accept as a part of life, instead of constantly seeking validation of that reality's denial.

No one else can enter your pain with you, nor can they fully enter your joy. Those are internal experiences. Not even the most ideal partnership can spare you from that reality.

Discovering the person you love is not who you thought can feel like a kick has landed in your chest. Among the unfortuate side effects are loss of appetite, insomnia, constant weeping, etc.

But what do you do when you're tired of crying because it feels like your eyes could pop out? Or when you're just sick of feeling sorry for yourself.

Hopefully you'll know to turn here when you've had enough of thinking in circles and getting nowhere. Start by reading past postings here, check the website, and my Alumbo.com columns. But then what?

What do you do? You build your business. Those restless moments when you want desperately to call and beg him to come back are better used if applied to a productive aspect of building your enterprise.

Towards that effort I will offer you these "after hour product reviews and resources". Can't sleep? Then work on your marketing plan.

Why? Because you have to begin taking actions that empower and validate you...the life you create for yourself. Focusing on your business is a way to begin working and focusing on your future in a way that is not dependent on self defeating relationships.

It also helps you become oriented with the concepts of relationship valuation that will benefit all of your future relationships, professional and personal.

With diligent conscious attention this can be an exercise in breaking old relationship patters by creating a better relationship with yourself. Building your business is an investment in your future at the most fundamental level.

This is why entrepreneurship works as an intervention. But enough of that. On with the product review I wanted to pass along.

Product Review of ListInferno

Concept: Adds Thousands Of 100% Opt-In Leads To Your List
Overall Rating: 5 out of 5
Ease of Use: 5 out of 5
Effectiveness: 5 out of 5
Recommendation: Use Immediately - Major List Building Tool
Price: FREE

Anyone successful on the Internet tells you the gold is in
your list. But what if you can't get that list? What if
you're struggling to get just 100 subscribers a week?

Now there's a better solution, that enables anyone to add
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very little effort.

Technical eMarketer Steve Shaw, the guy behind this tool,
says that ListInferno has been designed to "give everyone
and anyone the ability to create their own big valuable
opt-in list ... this system has been designed to add
thousands of opt-in leads to your list for the bare minimum
of effort - and it's all 100% free".

So, does it live up to the hype?

When I first took a look at this tool, I thought, "Well,
there are some systems similar to this one on the net...
What makes this one so special?"

Then, when I signed up and followed the process in the
Setup Wizard, the answer was easy to see. There are some
subtle differences in this tool that make it really stand
out. And I'd be willing to bet that these differences may
well make this the most viral list building tool yet seen

It's important to realize, that rather than bringing you
huge amounts of traffic, this tool brings you what anyone
wanting to make money online needs even more - quality
targetted 100% opt-in leads for your list.

This new free tool could well be the easiest, cheapest and
fastest way to build your list yet developed. In fact, by
jumping on board with this as soon as possible, you could
gain a strong advantage over your competitors.

And if they are already signed up, that's even more reason
not to waste any more time. After all, the one with the
biggest list usually wins, and makes the most money.

Definitely ride the wave on this:

List Inferno

Listen, I've tried this out myself - it's so easy and so
effective, it would be pretty dumb not to use it
immediately. Anything that can give you free subscribers
for virtually zero effort is worth a try - and this system
can give you lots of those.

Bottom Line: This is probably the most effective list
building system we have ever encountered - and quite
possibly there will never be anything like this again. We
mean that. We just hope it stays free... You should get it
now while it still is.

List Inferno

Let me know what kind of success you have with this program. I look forward to hearing from you.

Here for your success,
Y. Dubel
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