Elements Of Your Simple Plan for Success

PBWiki deserves a round of applause

2007-04-20T01:51:00.000-04:00

You've heard of the wiki page, but have you heard of PBWIKI?

Their tagline is: “Make a PBwiki as easily as a peanut butter sandwich”.
That's because setting up a PBwiki is free and takes only 10 seconds, literally :-)

We have been using the service for a year now and it has recently gone ad free for educational pbwiki(s) like ours. Have you seen it yet? If not, feel free to learn more here AFTER you take the Pbwiki tour.

What we have enjoyed most is the ease of use. There has been virtually no learning curve...and when the time came to learn how to do more there are wonderful tutorials. To say that I've found the pbwiki as a tool to be inspiring is an understatement. It represents one example of how "bootstrap" technology can help transform the world....for the better.
Our project grew from the question, "what can i do?" with regard to achieving the UN led Millenium Development Goals. However what has emerged has been the concept and product beginnings for automating global social responsibility.

Check out the PBwiki tour!

The Martin Luther King Jr. Holiday - Message for Community and Commerce

2007-01-15T11:02:00.000-05:00

NewsMax reporting on the first public address from the eldest daughter since her mother's death: "We must keep reaching across the table and, in the tradition of Martin Luther King Jr. and Coretta Scott King, feed each other," Yolanda King said Sunday at Ebenezer Baptist Church during a presentation that was part motivational speech, part drama." The performance included scenes sharing experiences from the oral histories of America including "a girl's first ride on a desegregated bus" and an experience during the 1963 desegregation of Birmingham, Ala.

Her speech both touched on the need for healing and the call to remember there is still work to be done. This work begins with acknowledging the value of the individual, the need for love inspired dialogues, and continued seeking of peaceful resolutions to unite individuals and communities.

Even as recently as November of 2006 disturbing historial events were brought to light which cast shadows on the past and illuminated the present because as the editor of the Charlotte Observer discusses in his comments which refer to an event that happened in Wilmington North Carolina, there is a direct relationship to the present. In reference to this the editor replied, "We apologize to the black citizens and their descendants whose rights and interests we disregarded," the editorial noted," and to all North Carolinians, whose trust we betrayed by our failure to fairly report the news and stand firm against injustice." In an E&P interview Ed Williams, editorial page editor of the Charlotte paper, said he ordinarily is against "people who didn't commit a wrong apologizing to those who were wronged and are long dead." But he said this case was special given that the racist actions impact today's residents. "I thought we just needed to get on the right side of history on that".

Since the holiday was established by the 1994 Congress there has been considerable discussion about what it means to communities throughout the nation. We don't have to look far to know we've not yet reached the promise land that Dr. King envisioned, however we must not take for granted the progress that has been accomplished NOR that which lies ahead awaiting our attention and peaceful action. What action can you take today that promotes the ideals that this holiday is intended to celebrate?

There is much to be done and the recent buzz about GSR (global social responsibility) and CSR (corporate social responsibility) may give reasons for optimism. However, I feel there are some core issues that have to be interjected into such a dialogue, namely Attention, Love and Social capital in economic development/commerce/community building. Instead of repeating them here I will post this link to the article....

"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."-- Albert Einstein

It is this understanding that stands at the heart of the concepts being developed in my current work. The abstract concepts that are revealed in the Cultural Fusion series have very practical applications for businesses and communities.

Thank YOU for Your Time

2006-11-13T08:42:00.000-05:00

A friend shared this with me and although most of us rarely pass these things forward when they arrive in our email boxes, I thought this one needed to be shared because it did give me a moment to pause, consider, and then smile about how I've chosen to use my time. I hope it speaks to you...reminding you to take a few moment to share what's most important to you with others . . . Thank you for your time :-)

We forget sometimes because we get caught up in our busy world.

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday." Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.

"Jack, did you hear me?"

"Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said.

"Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it," Mom told him.

"I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said.

"You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said

"He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack said.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.

Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly.

"What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked.

"The box is gone," he said

"What box?" Mom asked.

"What box?" Mom asked.

"There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,'" Jack said.

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.

"Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read.

Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. "Mr. Harold Belser" it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.

"Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.

Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:

"Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser."

"The thing he valued most was...my time"

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant asked.

"I need some time to spend with my son," he said.

"Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!"

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,"

Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.

4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

5. You mean the world to someone.

6. If not for you, someone may not be living.

7. You are special and unique.

8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.

9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.

10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.

11. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.

12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

13 Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy .

14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.

Take a few minutes to share this with all the people you care about, if you do so, you can certainly brighten someone's day and might alter their perspective on life...for the better.

Thanks to Bob Gallo for taking the time to share this with me.

Bringing your customer data to life
Thanks to Cultural Fusion something wonderful is cooking at Comfuion!

"The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind. " -William James

"I am only one; but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. I will not refuse to do the something I can do." -- Helen Keller

Endangered Democracy AND Social Capital?

2006-11-07T19:46:00.000-05:00

After watching this issue go from public outcry to non-existent this documentary begs the question:

Is our Democracy and the Social Capital needed to secure it endangered?

Hacking Democracy

This cautionary documentary exposes the vulnerability of computers - which count approximately 80% of America's votes in county, state and federal elections - suggesting that if our votes aren't safe, then our democracy isn't safe either.

Electronic voting machines count about 87% of the votes cast in America today. But are they reliable? Are they safe from tampering? From a current congressional hearing to persistent media reports that suggest misuse of data and even outright fraud, concerns over the integrity of electronic voting are growing by the day. And if the voting process is not secure, neither is America's democracy. The timely, cautionary documentary HACKING DEMOCRACY exposes gaping holes in the security of America's electronic voting system.

In the 2000 presidential election, an electronic voting machine recorded minus 16,022 votes for Al Gore in Volusia County, Fla. While fraud was never proven, the faulty tally alerted computer scientists, politicians and everyday citizens to the very real possibility of computer hacking during elections.

In 2002, Seattle grandmother and writer Bev Harris asked officials in her county why they had acquired electronic touch screen systems for their elections. Unsatisfied with their explanation, she set out to learn about electronic voting machines on her own. In the course of her research, which unearthed hundreds of reported incidents of mishandled voting information, Harris stumbled across an "online library" of the Diebold Corporation, discovering a treasure trove of information about the inner-workings of the company's voting system. (read more)

And while it lasts see the documentary at Google Video

What about Demands and Emerging Needs?

2006-11-05T08:31:00.000-05:00

When Alterian, a marketing software company, asked marketing service providers about their top challenges the results were no surprise. The primary five were analytics, data acquisition, database management, lead management and track ROI. Industry leaders seem to agree that the demand is for integrated-single serve solutions and this is leading providers to make strategic alliances.

Something I’ve not seen quite as much discussion about is the value of uniting marketing software and strategy to CRM strategy, because obviously CRM technology is the heart of sales solution software solutions. To refute this is in my opinion is to prevaricate the reality that failure to approach them holistically is nothing short of shortsighted, often denying consideration for the larger ecosystem in which the enterprise has to thrive.

Developing integrated answers to this jumble of defined challenges and needs points towards the need to identify the company’s core humanistic/social values. This in turn leads to expanding the idea of profitability to include social capital that can be leveraged for sustainability of the business and the context in which it has to operate/grow.

At the same time this means that new metrics and analytical tools must be developed to subsume this expanded understanding. It is clear that continuing to do business as usual is not the only alternative; in fact abiding short sided approaches to growth is guaranteed to create more problems simply because it is counterproductive it is destined not to be sustainable.

Now that Comfusion is firmly underway my attention is being drawn towards the need for companion tools for calculating and analyzing the ROI of this conceptual framework where the definition of profitability is expanded and represented systematically. I think that points to a clear next phase for this project.

Last week I was very excited about a very interesting application I ran across that I feel can work for this project to measure and standardize quality assurance. But I’m keeping quiet on that until my meeting with the company’s co-founder.

If the lessons learned thus far are any indicator (and they are) then the tools will emerge as the core concept evolves and garners support.

In Formation, if not under construction

2006-07-27T11:57:00.000-04:00

Last time you were invited to join me on a journey. And i've decided this is the time and place for exploring what the journey is about and why you need to come along. From a certain perspective this little adventure is like others that invite you to peek behind the curtain. Only in this case you see the wizard in control is you. Whatever you believe to be true, it is you who makes that decision so how can it be otherwise?

After you've gone down the rabbit hole, then what?

That's the dilemma that i faced that led me to take the dramatic step of moving my business to Comfusion

I know some people would say it's crazy to orchestrate the collision to jumpstart the formation of a new ring galaxy and I ask you this....

Have the solutions to the world's BIG problems ever come from what was being said by most people?

That being said, this isn't about some faceless mass of people. It is about you and me. I've invited you to join me on this journey accepting that we are discovering it as we go. And since i've started this blog it has been searching to find it's voice through me. Well, I believe Cultural Fusion was the magic connection that I'd been hoping for...

Now that i've found it i can't see saying no thanks, the risk is just to great. There's much more at risk IF i walk away and ignore the pull it has on me. i have willingly been swept up into the formation of new galaxy called comfusion. i'd like to actually invite you in to see what it looks like now, but i can't because the dust has yet to settle. What i mean is there's literally no place for you to step as of yet. Comfusion is in formation and that must be complete before construction can begin on Hotel Infinity, the luxurious accomodations being prepared for guests and members.

In the meantime what does that mean? For now what that means is that parts of the Cultural Fusion will be housed where they are expressed until a home is completed for them in Hotel Infinity. Right now it is Ron Wopereis who is allowing comfusion to grow in the same space that his Theory of Attention is evolving within.

For now that's the window into the formation of Comfusion. For me it's like watching a baby grow. And if you think i've gone too far, then ask yourself how far one needs to be willing to go to see an end to extreme poverty and slavery in this lifetime?

Americans Seeking News

2006-02-24T05:16:00.000-05:00

Have you been wondering where you can get REAL News?

At the heart of democracy is the right to free flow of information as the basis of free society that "controls" it's government. Although our government is actually a republic,they share a core ideology. When guided by the intentions expressed by the words in our Constitution the potential exist to inspire each of us to be better by living up to the ideals of truth and respect for our fellow humans.

I've been actively comparing news coverage from Headline News, CNN, Fox News, CSPAN, MSNBC, NPR, and BBC World. It has left me wondering where most Americans are getting their news and if they are actively seeking or passively accepting it?

In the interest of empowering you with information I provide the following:

C-SPAN

NPR (National Public Radio)

BBC NEWS

How long do you plan to be in business?

2006-02-08T09:40:00.000-05:00

"The purpose of life is a life of purpose."
-Robert Byrne

What if the way you did business could change the world?

It's been too long since the last post. In a nutshell the above quote explains the why. I'm revamping my business to be in consistent alignment with my life. The new mission statement for the WebAntiphon Corporation will debut soon along with the sites revamp to reflect it.

Immediately following those will be the release of a white paper and article series relating the above to you and your business. They will include short guides with great information shared simply for FREE.

There's more but I'll save that for another time.

Are you someone who wants to be a part of creating a better world? Then I urge you to look at your life and the purpose expressed through it. Is it the legacy you really want to leave behind?

This has turned my attention towards an investigation into social capital and how it can be used to build bridges as well as help business growth strategies. With the unveiling of the new WebAntiphon Corporation brand this Spring you'll learn how CRM (customer relationship management) can blossoom into LRM (loyalty relationship management) that is eaily available to any business, organization or individual that really cares.

Understandably increasing profits drives commerce, but doesn't that need to factor in community sustainabilty as well? That's the question that has kept me from posting.

The remake of EnhancementConsulting.net and launch of Clarity 3.0 ONLINE will premier with some exciting BONUS OFFERS this Fall powered by WebAntiphon Corporation technology and strategies.

If anyone has any questions, comments or suggestions please feel free to share them with me. I'd love to hear from you and I look forward to sharing what we've learned with you.

Be well!

Get the Cure for B-R-S aka B-R-Syndrome

2005-12-09T09:36:00.000-05:00

How do you overcome your compulsion for repeating the same bad relationship patterns over and over again?

Here's what one ClickThru.com member and Clarity 2.0 user had to say about the complete Clarity Package:
"Great products!
Really work!
Yvette made me realize where I had made my errors in the past."

ClickThru Network

What is B-R-S?

You're about to get the best relationship advice you'll find at a savings that can't be measured in dollars alone. This is on the one hand an Instant Relationship Reading resource, and at the same time it is the cure that dating services and divorce lawyers don't want you to know about. You're in luck because now the cat's out of the bag that the cure is available to the public.

So what is B-R-S? That stands for Bad Relationship Syndrome. I've seen and worked with many people who've suffered needlessly for years from B-R-S. Many have searched for years for the cure and been unsuccessful, despite spending huge sums of money. That's because you have to understand what the problem really is and then go courageously to the source.

You can be free of this dreadful dis-ease in your life. You can say Good-bye to regrets forever when you leave B-R-S behind. Because now that you've been made aware of Clarity 2.0 you can never say you don't know what to do again and mean it.

This is what a Clarity 2.0 user, not unlike yourself, had to say,
"...It was amazing how Clarity revealed the roots of all relationship problems as well as provide a fairly straightforward way to solve any problems you could have. Definately something for anyone who is having relationship problems." (learn more)

Business...a work in progress

2005-11-01T10:02:00.000-05:00

When you're starting on a shoe string budget marketing your business can be a challenge to say the least. Depending on the kind of product you're selling services like ShowMyLinks
can make sense as part of a link popularity or traffic increase strategy. It's easy to dismiss these kind of link placements but depending on your product....for instance, it's worked very well for Instant Relationship Readings with Clarity 2.0.

That's one you won't find listed at my website so consider that a blog exclusive.

Since it seems many of you read this or visit my website for different reasons I'm going to try to offer something in the personal realm and something in the business marketing strategy neighborhood. What'd you think?

I'm surprised more of you haven't asked why I changed the marketing strategy for Clarity 2.0 Well, if you're one of my subscribers you have been updated and informed and if you're not how much can you really care?

On the personal side....I'll have to come right back with that because my dog has to go outside.

Instant Relationship Readings

2005-10-31T10:51:00.000-05:00

Attention!

Do you have bad relationships at work or in your personal life?

Because many of you reading this right now wish you didn't define yourself or life by the relationships that have gone bad I've made Instant Relationship Readings available to everyone using a Windows PC. You'll find Clarity 2.0 affordable for everyone. If the situation described doesn't apply to you personally, you know some for whom that is true.

I've got great news for you. The asking price for Clarity 2.0 has been slashed. My other projects are progressing well and until the launch of Clarity Online (members only) the personal coaching clients I work with will be a very select few. Since that is no longer being offered as a free bonus, reducing the price was common sense.

A significant amount of my focus is on WEBAntiphon CRM and a couple of new personal creative projects. And that means you can now get your Instant Relationship Reading for about the same price of one psychic reading except Clarity delivers again and again without all the vague mumbo jumbo. When I first ventured into the world e-Consultation software it was my vision that personal coaching self-help techniques be used to help as many people as possible. The reduced price assures.

Look, it gets even better --- for this incredibly reduced price, you still get around a dozen bonuses plus a tool for your own personalized Instant Relationship Readings whenever you need them.

Because it's unlike a psychic reading, you don't have to trust a psychic reader to help you see the truth. If you've been searching for the cure to "Bad Relationship Syndrome" then Instant Relationship Readings with Clarity 2.0 is just the cure you need. It's even been endorsed by a clinical social worker with Masters Degree, just read the testimonial for yourself.

Now about the business of marketing...

1. New Press
2. How Not to Do Business

WebAntiphon Inc. Moves Into Year One With Focused Web-Based CRM Services

CRM, Marketing & PR Provider WebAntiphon Inc. Helps Businesses and Enterprises Deploy Effective Communication Strategies

"Los Angeles, CA (FV Newswire) - WebAntiphon CRM (http://WebAntiphon.com), an innovative new Web based CRM provider, announces the availability of its customer relationship management, public relations and marketing programs services for not for profit agencies, chambers of commerce and small businesses across the country.

Based in Las Vegas, Nevada, WebAntiphon will provide not for profit agencies, associations and small businesses across the country with a suite of CRM solutions as well as Public Relations, Marketing and Web Development services."

What's not mentioned in the press release quoted above some exciting, but top secret, developments to be announced over the next several months. I'll post here about upcoming press, contest, events, etc.

A lesson in how not to do business

For the last month or so I had been in a sense courting a signficiant potential client. Although I'm tempted to give names I will instead share this...because I thought one member of their team was a person of integrity I did not push the issue of signing a non-disclosure or non-compete agreement. In retrospect that was obviously a huge mistake (since the CEO is a legal expert) as I recently saw aspects of my presentation implemented within their organization. Sure, it could just be a coincedence, but I find that hard to believe under the specific circumstances. I sent a congratulatory message indicating that I was glad they found my ideas to be valuable and suddenly got no response.

If it had been some kind of misunderstanding, don't you think I would have at least gotten an apology or alternate explaination? All in all it worked out for the best because I wouldn't want to work with a company that operates that way, nor would I recommend them...that includes colleagues who look for places for their clients to advertise or form strategic partnerships. For legal reasons I won't publically smear them, but the experience has given me sufficient grounds to not recommend doing business with them to clients and peers.

I'm a firm believer in karma...besides what they ripped off was barely a hint of what my team could have done for them, so it's their loss. They got crumbs when I could have delivered (on budget) the cake with icing, the perfect decor and the ideal guests .

Moving on... in Your Business Marketing & Pursuit of Justice

2005-10-18T10:06:00.000-04:00

Ahem….This may be old news now, but in case you read my previous piece on the Roberts confirmation here’s my follow up. Justice Roberts has been officially confirmed so I suppose congratulations are in order so I’d like to quote this Morgan Heritage song….
“Although the world is always turning, everyday something new we learn…
If your car breaks down in the middle of town, everything is still everything…”

Now let’s move onto the business marketing. Recently on one of the forums I’ve recently discovered someone had posted about difficulty getting serious leads. Another member recommended following up with a “no pressure” call to new leads and then continued follow up under the guise of developing a friendship. The underlying presumption being that people buy from their friends, while I don’t completely disagree the need for follow up is obvious but there is are far more subtle point that need to be addressed for real relationship building. Here was my response (with editing for spelling and a missed punctuation error) to that typical approach to marketing:

You definitely have a point there and that approach can work with some people. But if you have five reps asking to call you every other week plus send you an email on top of the newsletters you already subscribe to and the general daily onslaught of business and personal email...and oh, let's not forget the rest of life.

That can become a bit cumbersome very quickly and with too many people applying the same tactic...Well, it doesn't necessarily result in attracting the most productive recruits or the best customers. Let's face it, if your friend keeps asking you to help them who wouldn't initially give in if it simply meant signing up for their program or buying their product at least once? What then becomes of the friendship under those circumstances? How long will you keep calling if they don't keep reordering or producing sales for you? Does that then mean the key to success would be conditional friendships? Honestly, isn't that more like an associate? For me calling that a friendship is a bit dishonest.

I think advertising and marketing overload have made it a requirement that marketing be thought of in a different context with acceptance of certain (nearly) universal realities. But that's just my opinion.

Best,
Yvette
"Principles for the Development of a Complete Mind: Study the science of art. Study the art of science. Develop your senses - especially learn how to see. Realise that everything connects to everything else."
-Leonardo DaVinci

Attention Internet Marketers

2005-09-27T06:53:00.000-04:00

If you're an internet marketer and you'd like to help the victims of hurricane Katrina I'd like to pass on this invitation.

Leading Internet marketers are donating their time to help the relief effort and 100% of the money raised is going to the charities. In exchange for your donation you get to attend an exclusive call where they've promised to provide exclusive content. That's right they won't be selling anything.

If you've wanted to help, but weren't sure how you could....start here.

Haliburton Whistleblower as a Marketing Message?

2005-09-17T04:39:00.000-04:00

Today any marketing campaign depends on a relationship marketing strategy if it is to be successful. Haliburton has certainly dealing with that issue, because even though shareholders maybe happy (for now) the relationship nightmare has to have them worrying about customers and the public relations damage. It seems the strategy has mostly been to stay quiet, but how long can that play hold out?

The lessons are many, but it is yet another warning regarding the misuse of relationships and trust. Wait, this does have a marketing tie-in...reaching your customers means putting yourself out there a bit and supporting them in what is important to them.

In my case, that's relationships and so often in interpersonal relationships people may misdirect their frustrations with the political/social situation. The solution is helping to empower them to be proactive.

It's worth considering making this kind of strategy the focal point of your campaign. Of course, you will never get the sale if you don't just ask for it, but focus your content on serving the customer.

Where does the buck stop on the issues made glaringly obvious in the Senate Haliburton Contracts in Iraq Hearing?

Unfortunately, I can't provide a direct link to the video for this one, but here's the site where you'll find it.

I'm a significant proponent of self improvement because it is vital to continuous character building. We are all, at our best, works in progress. Our social/political climate mirrors that reality of the human condition.

Mrs. Bunnatine Greenhouse was an impressive witness illuminating the "hostile environment" created through the profiteering that generously benefited Haliburton. She is a reminder that nothing changes unless individuals courageously stand up and tell the truth. She ensures that you have concrete evidence with which to present
to your representatives who stand silently by ignoring the will of the people.

Where do you stand on this issue?
Do you feel that your representatives need to take a lesson in relationship marketing?

Since I think skewed relationship valuation is largely responsible for the emphasis on the strongest mirages of power where the honor is removed. It is a difficult topic to discuss without getting into the ways that the superficial has come to define what is in mainstream. Appearence is hyped beyond substance - confined by the flippant click of passe.

Does the idea of providing content that supports your visitors in being proactive using the tools our system offers to the best of your ability, advocating for civility and peace by your methods, appeal to you?

This can open the door to specific niche markets.

Watch Roberts Confirmation Hearing

2005-09-13T15:00:00.000-04:00

Could the Civil Right Movement have happened with Judge Roberts as the Chief Justice on the Supreme Court Bench?

That's the question that nagged me and I was pleased it was at least brought up by Sen. Kennedy. However, it's a bit like depending on the job interview to reveal the truth of who someone is in the reality of actions taken daily.
Watch the Confirmation Proceedings thanks to CSPAN3 but remember to also pay attention to his record...Demands Extensive Questioning and Townhall.com reports on President Bush's Roberts pick

Go here to lookup your Senator's contact page and send them a message.

On another note I wanted to encourage you to take a look at this recent report from the UN Human Development Report 2005. You may have read (and if you haven't do so immediately) this post, How is Globalization Redefining Chambers of Commerce, and Globalization, Elevated Gas Prices & Alliances Usher in New Solutions.

In each I point towards the role you play in shaping globalization and for that matter human development investments. At the local level, whether your business in online or off, you can play a vital role in what globalization actually is and how it shapes your community. In the face of rising gas prices that issue is again one I urge you to bring to the forefront of your considerations. Even as we seek alternatives to our oil dependency we must find immediate solutions that will support CRM campaigns that drive sales as well as profits. Contact me and let's explore how WebAntiphon CRM can provide the right solution for you.

The Upside of Hurricane Katrina Evacuations

2005-09-12T11:54:00.000-04:00

Have you ever been to The Delta and had the experience of getting to know the folks that define the region?

There are many people struggling to recover from the impact of hurricane Katrina. A key part of that recovery depends on finding opportunities for gratitude and celebration. There's an opportunity that I'd like to point out...the chance people across the nation will now have to know the heart of The Delta -- the goodness, the strength and ingenuity of its inhabitants.

Remember that the media lens view is only as clear as that of the person directing it when you find yourself getting caught up in controversial topics like "looting". This is a time for helping the recovery effort by remembering to express gratitude and appreciation for what is good.

The fine people of The Delta existed before becoming victims of hurricane Katrina. You must be willing to be critical of your pressumptions because the successful renewal of life that awaits The Delta and the nation depends on being willing to see the fullness of an individual instead of through the singular lens of hurricane vicitim. That is not a required part of extending your help.

Now that the survivors are faced with the difficult job of moving forward....finding reasons to tackle another day and feel good about greeting the world only with the gifts of self we must be prepared to appreciate them.

The upside of having the evacuees in your neighborhood is you get the chance to know them. Extend to them the love, kindness and support you would most appreciate if it were you on the other end.

You have more in common than not.

Hurricane Katrina Pushing Devastation on Multiple Fronts

2005-08-31T08:09:00.000-04:00

Without a doubt the top story in relation to hurricane Katrina has been the lives lost and devastated. In the coming weeks reports on the dollar amount of the damage are sure to come rolling in, but the emotional toll will be felt for years to come. My heart and prayers go out to the survivors. Please visit the Red Cross or Salvation Army to find out more about how you can assist.

Because this devastating storm has caused so much destruction there will be a need for long term support. In planning for my HeartCentered Joint Venture a group of partners will be gathering to explore how to best include a number of worthy causes including that one.

On the economic side of things......
The harsh reality of moving forward requires practical solutions to economic threats resulting from the personal devastation. People or businesses that have been destroyed as well as those that depended on them to do business have to develop alternative strategies quickly.

Following Katrina wholesale gas prices have reached $3 a gallon in the Gulf Coast which could indicate a retail spike nationwide. The typically lower prices in the southeast are expected to become a memory.

This effects you as an everyday driver, but it also effects the prices of a number of services and goods. How is your business going to cope with the unavoidable gasoline pricing increase?

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Why don't you know?

2005-08-30T14:58:00.000-04:00

My passion for human rights was ignited back in the 1980's when I was teen. I suppose you could say I cut my teeth on the Amnesty International letter writing campaigns. Not to surprisingly I continue to participate in letter writing, fax and email campaigns, but this blog offers me the opportunity to educate even more people about the human rights horrors that persist today.

Did you know slavery is not a thing of the past?
Clicking on that link will take you to Anti-Slavery Web Portal. I encourage you to go there to educate yourself, get involved, make a donation and help inform others.

I know I've mentioned this next issue previously, but it persist so I must continue to help do my part to draw attention to it. Yes, I'm referring to the genocide in Darfur. I beg you to visit the Prevent Genocide International website to learn more about what you can do because there is something....some way you can help end the horror.

If each of us does what we can we can put an end to this insanity.

Are you trapped in a bad relationship?

2005-08-27T00:05:00.000-04:00

Before I continue with this, understand I'm not talking about domestic violence. If you're being abused you need to leave immediately and get help. It won't get better until you remove yourself. As a child I witnessed the horror of domestic violence, and the best thing that ever happened was my Mother having the courage to leave. In doing so, she saved us both. I will be forever grateful to her for that and all the other gifts she's given to me...perhaps the greatest being to model what love in action looks like.

Sure I could sugar coat this to avoid offending anyone, but there simply is no getting around this....

NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INFERIOR WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT.

Now that's not to say that I'm not sympathetic to those of you who feel you're suffering in a bad relationship, but the bottom line is you grant your consent by your presence in the relationship. Perhaps, you feel your situation isn't that simple.....It's complicated.

Maybe, that's true. But that doesn't change the facts of the matter and it doesn't mean your situation is hopeless. Far from it.

In fact, it isn't even as simple as leaving the bad relationship because unless you address the root issues....why you're in that kind of relationship....chances are that you'll simply end up in another bad relationship.

I developed Clarity 2.0 because it helps you look objectively at what's really going on and what you're feeling. In the end you get down into what your true motivations are. What do I mean by that?

Well, you're in the situation you're in for a reason....how did you end up in it to begin with? What red flags did you ignore? And most importantly, what's the pay off to you for being there?

Yes, you're getting something out of it or it wouldn't have materialized in your life....you wouldn't have selected that person or remained in the relationship otherwise.

A common pay off for having bad relationships is you get to be right. It can prove you're right about what a jerk the other person is....or prove that you really will never find someone who'll love you....or it could be a way of validating that you don't deserve to be loved or happy.

Are any of those true for you? Then you need to contact me today because I always a free consultation. That allows us both the opportunity to make sure we're a good match. I'm posting in the "news ticker" the qualities I look for in an ideal client. If you stop by and check it out and then you feel we'd be a good match you can reach me by posting here or emailing me from here. Your new free email Relationship Rescue courses will be ready shortly. There will be one for "bad relationships" and one for "infidelity recovery".

What's the fuss about diamonds?

2005-08-26T18:08:00.000-04:00

Who doesn't know what the word "bling" means? It's actually so much a part of the contemporary vocabulary that it's been included in the dictionary. How much do you know about the reality behind that term?

There's a much anticipated documenaty called "Bling: A Planet Rock" by Raquel Cepeda, co-director and former editor-in-chief of Russell Simmons’ One World Magazine. She's set to travel back to Sierra Leone with some of America’s most popular rap artists in December. She hopes that the film, which she says is “a theatrical documentary that’s sometimes satirical, but very accessible and palatable for people in our generation,” will help open the eyes of young people of color to a well-kept secret back in the motherland.

You're encouraged to investigate for yourself and learn the full story. Start with the link above and then read this statement from DIC pans Kayne West song, 'Diamonds from Sierra Leone' Anthony DeMarco, JCK Senior Editor JCK-Jewelers Circular Keystone. Then if you're interested in the actual song they're referring to here are the song lyrics.

Why Desperate Housewives + Sex in the City=Edutainment TV today

2005-08-25T12:47:00.000-04:00

I considered softening that title with a question mark, but in my mind it's not much of a question.

First, let's establish just what I mean by edutainment.

Edutainment- leisure programs that educate as well entertain.

Let's take a brief look at why I've singled out these two programs. I turned on the TV a couple of days ago and saw a promo for another channel that will be bringing Sex in the City beyond the realm of HBO. I paused to think about how many women I'd heard use a character on the show as some frame of reference. The show has taken on viral proportions in syndication and that made me wonder if a similar fate awaited the newly touted Desperate Housewives.

Remember that book that was born from that now infamous catch phrase, "...just not into you" that has become a part of the American lexicon? Isn't that evidence that the show is teaching whether the people involved in creating it want it to or not. Sure some could argue the value of that particular lesson, but why doesn't anyone ask this one....

What kind of person doesn't know this when they're fast approaching 40 years of age?

I mean, how many years of dating, being dumped, sleeping around, and generally degrading yourself does it take to get that? I was trying to school my friends on that kind of stuff when I was 14 years old and I have the letters to prove it ;-)

I think there's a huge problem if a television show, rather than your life is educating you about how not to be a fool. The scores of women who reportedly wrote into the show inspiring the writing of the book mentioned previously are proof of the point I'm making here.

What you do is either taking you closer to or further away from what you really desire.

The problem, as I see it, is with the miseducation that occurs even more frequently as women look to these kind of shows to understand themselves or their lives. Prompted by a client who swore by the show, I did watch the final episode. Who thought that having the man you love finally presenting you with his real first name was indicative of a happy ending?

Now Desperate Housewives offers married, and often middle aged women, the same buffet served on a different table. The meal still stinks. Perhaps the designer fashions and parade of "beautiful people" are supposed to distract from the ugliness of the stories?

Why are there so many wedding magazines, television shows, books and websites while at the same time it's considered passe to end a movie with a wedding? How did this notion of right person for now morph into the notion marriage?

In my conversations with women I am surprised by how many religously watch week after week until the characters become the friends that understand their deepest and darkest secrets or inspire them to make secret fantasies reality.

Am I the only one struck by the lack of depth of this kind of characterization of women's lives? Why are so many people relating to these lost to themselves, materialistic, shallow people that television art has breathed life into?

Better yet, if you're one of those people, do you aspire to fill yourselves on a rehashed meal that someone has scooped off the floor or does that variety of edutainment inspire you to be more...to be better, not just on the surface but in the quality of person that you are inside. Or perhaps you just want validation that you're not as messed up as you fear?

The life you move through each day is the result of what's going inside, whether you admit it or not. Even if your secrets are well kept, you know what they are, you live every day fearing everyone else will know too. That is a point that goes right to the heart of what real self esteem is based on or why it is severely lacking.

So much emphasis is placed on how things appear that I fear no one cares anymore about what a thing, or a person, actually IS. What I see in magazines, commercials, and TV shows doesn't resemble anything I'd classify as beautiful....It is mostly empty and pushing the same old misogynistic images of women that mainstream media has always hyped (with few exceptions).

As a woman I know we tend to define ourselves by our closest relationships. But what happens when you avoid facing your true motivations for creating the life/relationships you have?

I guess if there's any value, besides to the advertisers for whom the show was really created, it'd be that it could prompt viewer (loyal or otherwise) to ask themselves this question.....

What unmet needs are being denied that drive someone to become their own worst enemy? And more importanly---

What's it going to take to change that?

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2004-06-14T11:36:00.000-04:00

Unfortuately, with so much going on lately I haven't been able to do much in the way of community service. But because I think giving back to the greater community is so important I decided to think creatively.

Do you know what I found? An opportunity. I found a couple of message boards where people go to seek advice. You can probably guess what I did. I started posting responses.

I don't know how much good it will utimately do, but it's a way to reach out to people who are already reaching out for help. The problem I keep seeing again and again is the lack of relationship to self....that and the power of denial.

I am frequently amazed at how many people are out there searching, reaking of desperation, for someone to love them. I know we all want to be loved, but I am amazed at how denial (probably rooted in desperation) convinces them that the most unlikely people are, in fact, suitable candidates...even when it is glaringly obvious only one person is *really* in love.

Yeah, I know I can't save everyone. I just hope that I can reach a few before they build their lives on lies and illusions.

I would love to see them all triumph and enter the arena of success.
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Commit to your success just as you might to a romantic relationship. Remember, your commitment to success is representative of your relationship to yourself. So treat yourself well.

Here for your success,
Y. Dubel
http://www.enhancementconsulting.net

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2004-06-11T14:43:00.001-04:00

I just wanted to let everyone know it looks like the server problems are straightened out and your emails can get through once more.
Stay in touch!

All my best,
Y. Dubel
http://www.enhancementconsulting.net

You Might Need To Know

2004-06-11T14:43:00.000-04:00

I just wanted to let everyone know I'm having some server problems, so your emails may have problems reaching me. I'll keep you posted and if you need reach me just keep trying or try again on Monday. I apologize for these unfortunate difficulties. Stay posted and keep in touch.

All my best,
Y. Dubel
http://www.enhancementconsulting.net

What to do Instead of...For those distracted by a broken heart

2004-06-08T02:23:00.000-04:00

"The truth that makes men free is for the most part the truth which men prefer not to hear."
Herbert Agar

I think this is especially true when it comes to relationships. The more emotional it is the more truth there seems to be in that statement, at least at some point during its course.

There is an element of "you are alone" that we must all confront and accept as a part of life, instead of constantly seeking validation of that reality's denial.

No one else can enter your pain with you, nor can they fully enter your joy. Those are internal experiences. Not even the most ideal partnership can spare you from that reality.

Discovering the person you love is not who you thought can feel like a kick has landed in your chest. Among the unfortuate side effects are loss of appetite, insomnia, constant weeping, etc.

But what do you do when you're tired of crying because it feels like your eyes could pop out? Or when you're just sick of feeling sorry for yourself.

Hopefully you'll know to turn here when you've had enough of thinking in circles and getting nowhere. Start by reading past postings here, check the website, and my Alumbo.com columns. But then what?

What do you do? You build your business. Those restless moments when you want desperately to call and beg him to come back are better used if applied to a productive aspect of building your enterprise.

Towards that effort I will offer you these "after hour product reviews and resources". Can't sleep? Then work on your marketing plan.

Why? Because you have to begin taking actions that empower and validate you...the life you create for yourself. Focusing on your business is a way to begin working and focusing on your future in a way that is not dependent on self defeating relationships.

It also helps you become oriented with the concepts of relationship valuation that will benefit all of your future relationships, professional and personal.

With diligent conscious attention this can be an exercise in breaking old relationship patters by creating a better relationship with yourself. Building your business is an investment in your future at the most fundamental level.

This is why entrepreneurship works as an intervention. But enough of that. On with the product review I wanted to pass along.

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Oopps!

2004-06-07T11:48:00.001-04:00

Your thoughts are the seeds of your success,
but it is your actions that form the roots.--Yvette Dubel

You know how it is when you're moving. Treasured items are rediscovered. Please check the previous post again. I've created another page just for you to view that great info I uncovered in my Treasure of Resources.

I had some problems posting it in the ezine, but where there's a will there's a way. I will employ this method in the future as I find information I am too excited about sharing to wait until the next official ezine edition.

I would like to convene an online focus group of people recovering from a relationship breakup or seeking relationship advice. I am especially seeking those of you with an interest in self help improvement and financial freedom (entrepreneurship). If you, or anyone you know meets that criteria please refer them to Enhancement Consulting. (use the email link on the contact page with subject line "Focus Group")

Here's that special page I mentioned Your Special Resource Page

As always, you are invited to share your stories, comments, or questions here. Feel free to inquire about ad exchanges using the contact info at the web site.

Here for your success,
Y. Dubel
www.enhancementconsulting.net

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Yikes! Snakes In The Basement

2004-06-07T10:40:00.000-04:00

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Inspiration can be found in the oddest moments. We've just moved into a new house and it's times like this that living with the animals we chose (English Mastiff and a mixed kitty that thinks she's a dog)
just makes me feel better.

It has been a string of long days packing, carrying boxes and rediscovering memories. I was looking through a box of old letters when my husband, Dave, came in yelling, "You won't believe what the guy found down there!"

He was right. I didn't believe it.

That is until the installation guy, Steve I think his name was, assured me that was the first time he encountered snakes during an installation. "You'll have to call someone to get rid of them before I can finish."

He went on to inform me that he'd seen two of them. "Who do I call," I asked?

"Animal control or a pest company," he told me.

Well, as it turns out no one removes snakes in my neck of the woods. Finally, I called the agricultural supply store. Sure enough, they had a suggestion. Rattlesnake Sulfur. You get it and sprinkle it around the house or property. Apparently, snakes can't stand the smell. He also suggested that I get some moth balls and spread around as well.

Places like agricultural and home supply stores, at least the good ones, are specialized resource centers. In a sense I'd like this publication to serve a similar purpose. A place you use and trust enough to refer friends to when they are in need of strategic or free small business resources, relationship help, advice, AFFORDABELE professional or personal coaching.

Even amidst the madness of snakes in the basement, I am thinking of you and your success. I ran across several resource lists and articles while unpacking. Periodically, I will share them with you here if I can't wait until the next official issue of Elements of Your Simple Plan for Success.

You know how it is when you run across something and then you wonder how you forgot to tell everyone about it because you just thought it was so terrific? That's a bit of what I'm feeling. You may have to scroll down just a bit, but you'll see why I had to tell you about this right away.

Oh, one more thing, those of you who subscribed through a service instead of the Enhancement Consulting website, may be interested in getting your free subscription gifts. You can get them by visiting the website and submitting a request from there using the email links.

I had some trouble posting what I wanted to share with you here so, I've created a special resource page just for subscribers to this ezine. You'll find it at the link I dropped somewhere around here.

Psst...pass it on!

My snake fiasco has reminded me that we all need help at some time and there's nothing like having it around when you need it. When you need help, Enhancement Consulting's resources are here for you.

Here for your success,
Y. Dubel
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2004-06-04T12:36:00.000-04:00

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I was at the computer working when I got her call. Sharon was crying. In between sobbing and blowing her nose she explained what had transpired between her and James.

“I told you from the beginning I wasn’t leaving her. Besides we’ve just found out we’re having a baby.”

“Why do you think you can treat me like this?”

“Because you let me. I know I can have something with her. Don’t call me anymore.”

And with that he left ending their three-year affair.

I interrupted her story to ask, “What did you think was going to happen?”

“Yeah, I know you were right, but I love him. I’ve put so much time into this relationship, I can’t believe he’d just do this.”

“Believe it because he has, now what are you going to do?” I asked.

Recently it seems I’ve had more people inquire about my understanding of entrepreneurship in a therapeutic self-help context. Understand that I make no claims about being a doctor or mental health expert.

What I am talking about is information that is available to anyone to be employed in your individual self-help improvement programs. I feel that counseling models have something to offer even to the layperson or personal coach.

Besides being someone who's been happily married for fourteen years, I've worked with alot of different kinds of people, but there are things that have stood out to me as commonalities.

Let me explain, my background in community programming and personal coaching have made me very aware of where the challenges are in developing programs that actually work over.

I don’t advocate the use of starting a business to avoid the reality of feelings, but rather that emotions cannot always dictate our actions.

The above story is a perfect example. What you didn’t see in that little dialogue is that because Sharon has been so consumed with doomed relationships she has neglected her personal development, as well as the relationships that are actually the most significant in her life.

She had talked about going back to school to take some classes so she could get a better position with the pharmaceutical company she worked for or even starting her own business. It is also worth noting that her involvement with James wasn’t the only relationship falling apart. She had about four others that were in about the same state.

She made a conscious choice again and again to put her energy into relationships that not only didn’t serve her, but also devastated the families betrayed by the affairs. Meanwhile, her financial situation didn’t improve and she felt worse about herself.

An important issue that I see reoccurring is that many people do not know how to distinguish between their ego and their intuition. They follow their emotions, constantly ending up at dead ends, and thinking they are following their intuition.

It is being with yourself honestly that helps to hone your connection to your intuition. And by the same token a different kind of discipline and perseverance results in success that, with a balance holistic approach, can brighten your entire existence.

In such cases, therapy and counseling models provide a road map in developing intervention programs that work. I use the term intervention because often when people come to me they are stuck in an emotional rut that may have lasted for years. Interestingly, it is not uncommon for that to accompany a financial one as well.

A definite change in behavior is required and because most people need more money it is an assessable need to begin with to motivate changes. On a personal level it is natural to be defensive about the attributes you accept as being you, even if they are self-defeating.

In the next issue I’ll talk more about those counseling models and how they apply to therapeutic entrepreneurship that empowers by cultivating a success mindset and the track record to back it up.

So until next time, remember…

I’m Here For Your Success,
Yvette Dubel
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The issue of the time it takes to produce the material may be obvious, but what about formatting? A well assembled e-book requires some basic html knowledge. This is a serious challenge for those wanting to grow their online business, but not interested in getting into the technicalities of design. This is made increasingly difficult for those with limited budgets not able to outsource such tasks.
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QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS:
Understandably there’re a lot of questions about quality sales copy that can actually sell. There’s a tool for every job and for Sales Letters I’ve found none better, so I went Marlon Sanders with your questions.

Marlon, what is the main purpose of your Push Button Sales Letters Software?

It is NOT a template. The problem with those is that they often don't fit your business.

This is the first and only software to my knowledge that walks you step-by-step through creating your own 100% completely customized sales letter.

We are the first person to unleash this kind of step-by-step system on the Net. It came as a direct result of my frustration trying to find out how to write sales letters that worked.
It took me 10-25 years to assemble this formula. It took a lot of hit and miss efforts as a freelance writer. Finally, I worked my way up to an elite copywriter status.

In working with customers, I realized that my ebook course on writing ad copy wasn't enough. What people really needed was a software program that just walked them through the whole formula step-by-step.
When you're done, it spits out a nicely formatted sales letter you can use on your web site.

Of course, it's only as good as the data you input. But we walk you through it all and make it as easy as humanly possible. Even if you aren't a good writer, you're going to find this software amazes you.

What is the main benefit of your Sales Letter Generator Software?

The HEART of your web site is your sales letter.
Look around and you'll see very few people get or understand this. They have web sites that never use a sales letter anywhere. If they took their web site, printed it and mailed it out in direct mail, it would never make a dime.

What I do is translate the methods that have worked for the last 100 years into a web format -- with modifications of course.
Very few of your competitors understand or do this.
But what the software does is FORCE you to write a drop dead, killer sales letter. By that I mean it practically does it for you. You just follow the process, input the data and enjoy the result.

Am I guaranteed to make money with the sales letter produced by your software?

No. All business involves risk of gain and loss. If you can't handle the potential for loss, don't play the game. I do everything in my power to put the odds in your favor.

You may not make a dime. And you may get rich. Chances are, you'll fall somewhere between those two extremes. That's as honest as I can be.

The sales letter is only one factor in your success.

What separates your Sales Letter Generator Software from the other how to products on the market?

I'm friends with many if not most of the other online marketers who train people. So I would never criticize their products. In fact, many of them are very good. I endorse some of them.
However, my ad copy/sales letter software takes things to an all new level. No one has ever done something like this before to my knowledge. Certainly not in the way I have done it because the software employs my own proprietary ad copy formula.
No one else has that unless they ripped it off from our products.

Will your formula work for my product? It's different.

Every product I can think of will work with this software. As long as you have to explain your features and benefits to potential buyers, it applies to you.

Will this write a sales letter for a lead generation business like mine?

Yes. It works for lead generation and direct product sales.

Why does it create a letter and not an ad?

The letter format is what works because it's personal. People want to buy from a person, not an impersonal entity.

Do you provide free consulting if I buy your product?

No, my consulting fee is $1,000 per hour.

How much do I make on the reseller program?

The cool thing about the product is you can sell it for 50% profit. You can do that even if you don't buy it. Send an email to resellscoop@getresponse.com for details.

Anyway, you not only make 50% on the Sales Letter Generator Software, you make 50% on our upsells, downsells, other products, 404 errors and other things. We do the follow up for you.

We have the most extensive reseller tools in the business.

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Dessert & Coffee Consulting Corner

This is the place where I answer the relationship help, business or personal, that matters most to you.

I’d say one that seems to be flaring up lately is how to handle difficult relationships? Since the context of the most recent inquiry was regarding professional dealings that’s how I’ll address it here.

First, I’d say you have to get honest with yourself and be specific. Deal with your feelings and issues first before confronting the other person.

By that I mean, what is it about what’s occurring that is upsetting to you? Why? Does it make you feel belittled or taken for granted? Is that a common theme in your life/relationships?

Probe to find out why you have allowed it thus far? Is there a power dynamic that makes you feel vulnerable?

Now what purpose does this relationship serve for you? Can the need be met in another way?

Have all of this worked out before you talk to the person. Then when you do, simply inform them of the decision you’ve made. If the relationship is to continue, for whatever reasons, then this will be a dialogue opener. Your goal is to establish a new dynamic in the relationship. But if the relationship is being terminated, then a simple explanation will do.

The bottom line is to know you and be prepared. The common denominator in all your relationships is you, so start there with any problem.

I wish you only the best,
Yvette Dubel
http://www.enhancementconsulting.net
Enhancement Consulting
P.O. Box 30153
Greenville, NC 27834

A Giggle A Day Keeps The Blues Away
How you made money
A young man asked an old rich man how he made his money.

The old guy fingered his worsted wool vest and said, "Well, son, it was 1932. The depth of the Great Depression. I was down to my last nickel.

"I invested that nickel in an apple. I spent the entire day polishing the apple and, at the end of the day, I sold the apple for ten cents.

"The next morning, I invested those ten cents in two apples. I spent the entire day polishing them and sold them at 5:00 pm for 20 cents. I continued this system for a month, by the end of which I'd accumulated a fortune of $1.37."

"And that's how you built an empire?" the boy asked.

"Heavens, no!" the man replied. "Then my wife's father died and left us two million dollars."

Not Another Bug!

2004-05-06T08:41:00.000-04:00

This is going to be a light entry. Still in test run phase and working out the bugs I have not made a final decision on the ezine/ blogger issue. That issue being whether or not to utilize the blogger as a ezine or newsletter supplement. I think it would be an innovative solution that would help subscribers on multiple front by first not cluttering up their email boxes with large html files. Definitely a plus in that regard.

I thought the following would be of interest so I am passing it along for you to read. While there are still a few bugs to be worked out before the official http://www.enhancementconsulting.net relaunch, it won't be much longer now ;-)

ValueLink incentive gift card survey

MAY 05, 2004 - -- ValueLink, a division of First Data Corporation that specializes in gift card implementation and transaction processing, has released preliminary results of a study focused on the incentive and business-to-business market at The Incentive Show in New York today.

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2004-04-26T17:38:00.000-04:00

The site has been undergoing a major overhaul as part of its re-launch. I've just switched serves so accessing downloads will be made considerably easier and even more secure.

Other improvements will include links to educational resources from experts who have researched the link between personal problems (such as perpetually bad relationship choices) and professional performance.

The new server will eliminate the frequent down times that have been resulting from the massive increase in traffic, NOT that I am complaining about that. This will also make it easier for you to submit your comments and subscribe or download requests at the web site.

Actually, there are a few other surprises, but I've got a meeting in a few minutes so I don't have time to devulge anymore information. Oh, I am still working on and considering how the blogger can best be used. I am seriously looking at it as a way to offer subscribers an ezine type solution that won't clutter email boxes. I have noticed that some of the newsletters I get are significantly sized files for accounts that have 10mb or less storage space. This requires me to go through those accounts more often, but it also means that I tend to be brutal about what is saved or disgarded. A blogger and better yet an RSS feed makes it all much easier...especially delivery and distribution.

There will be alot of exciting changes so check back often and help spread the word.

Here for your success,
Y. Dubel
www.enhancementconsulting.net
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Discovery In A Million Dollar Mistake

2004-04-08T08:48:00.000-04:00

I have noticed that though my clients often have created a plan, many do not incorporate an understanding of themselves to execute it, and so it is not adequately customized. Unleash your ultimate success by developing a strategy that seamlessly integrates self-knowledge to increase profits and personal fulfillment. Imagine the results of integrating that into your day-to-day life? Can you logically deduce the potential benefits and act accordingly?

Like me, you probably get e-mails everyday telling you about a new product that will automate cumbersome parts of your business. However, it is very easy to end up with a ton of software and books and still find yourself struggling with the same root issues.

Look, if you are going to invest in yourself or your business you must examine the big picture, not just one part of it. Acting haphazardly can actually take you farther off course, away from your true aspirations.
It’s akin to getting bogged down in the details. There is a middle point between bogged down in details and skimming the surface.

I highly advocate dealing with your relationship to self as a primary objective because it has multiple benefits on nearly every level. That is the key to unleashing the secret to your success. The place to begin is developing a strategy with your requirements and objectives at the center.

You might like to know that I haven’t always emphasized this relationship with self, component in my consulting practice. For a while I thought it was too personal, but time and again I saw that it was at the root of why the initial plan didn’t work.

The turning point came for me after I had been consulting with a recreational vehicles parts manufacturing company. The company had earned $1,000,000 in profit in its third year, so all seemed reasonably well. That is until I got inside.

There were a lot of communication problems, production was six months behind, what was being produced was mostly rejected work, and this contributed to issues of lacking supply inventory, nonexistent company morale…

You get the picture. After conducting my assessment, going over the production and sales logs, I made my report. Since my focus is on thought leadership and relationship marketing this was the framework in which my recommended solution was offered.

The managing director was unwilling to see the situation as a relationship that was dying and he wasn’t interested in “throwing anymore money at it”. Long story short, within six months half of the key staff had left and the company only had one remaining account to sustain the business, so much for another year of million dollar profits.

I wondered if it would have saved the company if I had pointed out that the director was at the center of the entire fiasco, fanning the flames actually. I saw enough of his personality drama to understand the tension I sensed from everyone working with him.

This was a lesson to me about what is at stake if I pretend not see what is glaringly obvious. If the client doesn’t see it, then that explains why they hire me.

I needed a change after that, so I decided to offer my services to people who were truly in need, but unlikely to get the kind help I thought I could offer.
I accepted the privilege of assisting women with children as they transitioned from homelessness. I was a part of a mentor team. It started out as personal coaching mostly because it became clear very quickly that a little help could go along way for someone who has never been encouraged.

Out of those coaching relationships several entrepreneurs were born. Empowered to seize their destinies rather than merely being manipulated by the choices of those around them, I witnessed how the relationship with oneself can heal a life.

I was privileged to benefit from the experience of others and I realized how much relationships could mean during times of uncertainty. This is as true when our professional life is negatively impacted, as it is when our personal life seems devastated.

It has been my honor to work with a number of talented, highly motivated and inspiring people. As we come to the end of this tête-à-tête, I encourage you to remain aware of the importance of relationships in reaching or staying on the top and the value in beginning with the one you have with yourself.

Enhancement Consulting (c) 2004

If you enjoyed reading this please visit www.enhancementconsulting.net

Y. Dubel is the founder of Enhancement Consulting and creator of the e-consultation product Enhancement Consulting Simple Plan System©. Enhancement Consulting publishes “Simple Plan for Success” Sign Up at the site and get Free Bonuses. Dubel has numerous publishing credits, many under pen names.

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